What women want
Now as you have probably discovered this section could go on forever! Each lady is different and sometimes they don’t even know what they want so it would be a miracle if you did!
Here are a few pretty much universal tips in how to attract women because (even if you never find out exactly what it is they want) at least it’s a start!
According to psychologists the rules of attraction state that women will subconsciously go for men who appear to be strong and confident and that would make a good provider and carer for her and her babies. Ok, these views may be a little outdated since some women appear to have reinvented themselves as the new bachelors but attraction is key and this all boils down to how you look and what you wear.
In general, a clean, tidy and thought about appearance is top of the list. You don’t have to have the latest fashion or expensive designer labels but at least make sure last nights curry stain has been washed out of your favourite t-shirt and that you are colour co-ordinated. (see clothing article)
Hair, depending on how you normally wear it should either be kept tidy and short or in its style with decent products that don’t look like you have just scrapped the remains from your deep fat fryer. (product). Any discolouration such as signs of first greys should be treated (product) and concerns about receding and thinning hair should be addressed (see our hair loss and thinning article).
Some women so find a little bit of stubble attractive but to play it safe, stick with the majority and always appear clean shaven (you can grown back your whiskers but you can never erase the memory of a stubbly kiss from her mind) and depending on your age, you will require different treatments from your shaving routine (see our shaving article) and this also applies to skincare (skincare article) remember that as well as having a soft face for her to run her hands over, it will also keep you looking younger and this in turn will attract more women- a definite winner all round!
Smell is very important and in some cases can attract a woman before she even sees you! Again, those boffins in the psychology department tell us that as humans derived from animals, we still rely on those pheromones (the natural scent your body secretes) to help us choose a mate (sweat and body odour article). This means in order to make sure you don’t smell like a stale sock from the bottom of your footie kit, you shower or bath in a lovely manly scent (see body care article), then apply a good B.O. busting deodorant (Zirh - deodorant) followed by a splash of aftershave or cologne (never both!) (Geo F Trumper - cologne).
Once the clothes come off she won’t be expecting Brad Pitt but she will be a tad disappointed if she ends up with someone resembling Matt Lucas. Step up your level of exercise and take some regular supplements (vitamins and supplements) as well as following a healthy eating plan (ok this may not be likely after a Donna kebab on your way home from the pub but try to eat well the majority of the time!) As well as the body remember the little things like clipped toe and finger nails article on hands, nails and feet and if you can bare it, a bit of waxing in those fuzzy areas!
Personality also plays a huge part so don’t be too cocky and forget lines like ‘is that a ladder in your tights or a stairway to heaven’! Remember she will probably be just as nervous as you are, confidence and a laid back, approachable attitude are key. confidence article
If, after all that you can actually find time to take the women out on a date, I'm sure you’ll find it was all worth while and if she doesn’t appreciate the trouble you have gone to remember, there are plenty of them out there who will!