Confidence - pulling on the dance floor
One rule - mess around!
It's that simple, you've got to have really big balls, and not be scared of people laughing at you, and this will work. Just go out to have a laugh, and don't care what people think about you. It's one of the most attractive things to see in someone.
* I would like to point out that there are other methods of pulling on the dance floor, but they very rarely work for me at least
Be the first
When people first get to a nightclub, it's always a case of wait for the first guy to get out on the floor. This is a great place to put in some early groundwork. By being the first out, you put yourself up for ridicule, but you also are showing you've got balls, and when it comes to pulling, you need to at least pretend you have them!
What not to do....
- NEVER look like you question what you've done. just be completely unashamed about what you are doing.
- NEVER look at the people on the sideline, act like they aren't there. Or if you do look, give them the raised eyebrows or something that suggests you know you're being a dick, but you love it.
...and what to do...
- Take a mate. Don't go out alone unless you have boulder sized balls. It takes talent that hardly anyone has to do it alone. If you do take a mate, feel free to gay up to him to make him look uncomfortable. The more comfortable you look, the more confident you'll look. Contrast to another person is a good thing!
- Involve others, people aren't used to being randomly approached by someone. But make it light, remember you're there to have a laugh. Pulling should at least "seem" like the last thing on your mind.
- Take the piss... and most importantly, take the piss out of yourself. Do not take yourself seriously. This will not work if you look, or feel, like you care. Just enjoy yourself. People are naturally going to be intrigued.
Coming soon - a step by step guide to the following moves
- Winding your bumper
- The dance of shiva
- The hot hand
- The multi dance off
- The bump n grind